In 2013, Australian social entrepreneur Elliot Costello visited an orphanage in Cambodia, where he met a 10-year-old girl named Thea. She had endured deep trauma after losing her father and spending two years in the orphanage. Despite her pain, Thea showed extraordinary strength and kindness, leaving a lasting impression on Elliot. During their time together, she painted one of his fingernails — a simple act that became a powerful symbol of her story and the silent suffering of countless children affected by abuse.
Elliot made a heartfelt promise that day: he would keep that one nail painted as a tribute to Thea and as a reminder of the urgent need to protect vulnerable children. From that promise, the Polished Man movement was born. The initiative encourages men to paint one fingernail to represent the devastating reality that one in five children worldwide experience sexual violence before turning 18. It’s more than just a symbol — it’s a conversation starter that invites awareness, empathy, and change.
Since its creation, the Polished Man campaign has become a global movement supported by public figures like Chris Hemsworth, Zac Efron, and Kelly Slater. The organization has raised over $8.7 million, funding trauma recovery, prevention programs, and survivor support services around the world. Each painted nail stands for courage, advocacy, and action.
So, when you see a man with one painted fingernail, it may not be a fashion statement — it’s often a sign of compassion and solidarity. It’s a reminder that small gestures can lead to powerful conversations and that together, we can help ensure every child grows up free from violence and fear.