If you share your home with a cat, the situation is familiar: you settle into bed and discover your cat already resting on your pillow or curled up where you planned to sleep. While it may seem inconvenient, this behavior is usually a sign of comfort rather than stubbornness. Cats are careful about where they rest, and choosing your bed shows they feel secure in that space.
Sleeping near you is also a sign of bonding. Cats build connections by sharing space, and resting beside you reflects familiarity and trust. It is not about control or habit, but about closeness and feeling at ease. Your presence provides reassurance, especially during quiet nighttime hours.
Warmth and comfort are important factors as well. Cats naturally seek steady heat, and your body offers a consistent source throughout the night. Soft bedding, pillows, and blankets make your bed an inviting place for deep, uninterrupted rest from a cat’s perspective.
Your scent plays a role too, as familiar smells help cats relax. In addition, many cats instinctively choose sleeping spots where they feel both protected and aware of their surroundings. Resting near you meets those needs while also expressing affection. Often, the reason is simple: your cat feels safe, comfortable, and at home with you.